The last few months my little sister has been going out of town a little bit too much. She said to our parents that she had things to do about her final project in college, but I don’t buy it. I’m not stupid. I know that her boyfriend is in that town, where she was going. I know that she met her boyfriend every time she went there. I know that she’s going to stay in her boyfriend’s place every time she went there, even though I’m not 100% sure about this. I just realized that she’s going (almost) every month, and this time (last week, to be exact), she’s even lying and said that she went to another town and stayed with a friend.
I’m fully aware that this is not my business, but she still my sister, and the first thing that crossed my mind was, ‘since when my sis become those kind of girls that went too far just for a guy? I thought I taught her right, didn’t I?’ I mean, there is nothing wrong with going to places where your boyfriend lived, but once a month? And you’re the one who’s going to his town and not the other way around? She’s even running out of excuse and said going to different city, is that even necessary? How come?
I had long distance relationship like that once, and I never come to his town except when it’s holiday or something special. It’s always he’s the one who come to my town. He always the one who stayed at my place, not the other way around. We both busy, and I get it if you only want to be together at one place without any disturbance, but…. Still, you went to his town every time? The money alone she spend only for the trip... and when she’s there.. Every. Single. Time.
I heard from my other sister that when she’s going, she doesn’t even have money and ask my other sister to borrow some, for couple days when she’s there. And she’s calling my other sister to tell her the money was well spend and she’s got to eat steak, made by her boyfriend who are a chef. He doesn’t even graduated yet. And he’s at my age, which means he is five years older from my little sister.
What worst is, I’m at the stage where we’re not talking to each other with my little sis. It’s been going on few months and I can’t even remember the thing we argued. So, I can’t exactly told her anything or said anything about this. I’m just… worried. Is this normal?
I just hope that when she learned her lesson, it’s not involving any baby.
Hopefully.
